Scott Stites

It is with heavy hearts that we share the passing of Scott Frederick Stites, who left us on November 7th, 2025. Scott was born and raised in Traverse City, Michigan, on February 1st, 1970, to Robert “Bob” Stites and Charlene LaDuke. Traverse City shaped who Scott was—its lakes, trees, sunsets, and rainbows brought him peace and joy throughout his life.

On September 18th, 1998, Scott married the love of his life, Darla Dee Dean, at Old Mission Lighthouse Beach. That day marked the beginning of a partnership built on deep devotion, shared laughter, and unwavering love. Together, they built a home in Traverse City, surrounded by the beauty Scott treasured.

Scott leaves behind his beloved wife Darla Stites; his mother Charlene LaDuke; his brother Patrick Stites (Danielle); his stepmother Vicky Stites; stepbrother Jeremiah; and his aunt Marge Halstead. He is also survived by a large and loving extended family: his mother-in-law Nancy Herrygers, his mother-in-law Bev Johnson, his father-in-law Richard Herrygers, sister-in-law Christa Abdul-Karim, brother-in-law Chad Johnson (Margret), sister-in-law Alane Kikkert (Curt), brother-in-law Kurt Johnson (Danielle), and brother-in-law Russel Johnson, along with numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins.

He is preceded in death by his father, Robert Stites, his father-in-law Duane Johnson, and two sets of grandparents. Losing his father just a year ago was devastating for Scott, and today we take comfort in knowing they are reunited.

Scott lived a life defined by kindness, service, and love. He worked as a kitchen manager at Dill’s Old Town Saloon for four years and at Amical for ten years. Later, he joined Brothers Tree Service, where he quickly learned the trade, worked hard, and became a foreman. Most recently, Scott drove a bus for Dean Transportation and TCAPS, where his tender heart shone brightest. He had a special compassion for children with disabilities, treating every student with patience, dignity, and genuine care.

Scott loved the outdoors—the water, the woods, and all the beauty of Northern Michigan. He adored his dogs, Bella and later Sammy, who brought him tremendous comfort and companionship. He was also a loyal Detroit Red Wings fan, volunteering each summer at the Red Wings Development Camp at Centre Ice and traveling to Detroit for games whenever he could.

Scott had a deep love and respect for eagles, which symbolized strength, resilience, and freedom to him. He carried that meaning with him daily and even wore it proudly as an eagle tattoo on his shoulder. The scripture Isaiah 40:31—

“Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not faint.”

—was a message he held close to his heart. It reflected how he approached life: with faith, courage, and the ability to rise above hardship.

After his stroke in 2020, which weakened his left side and ended his ability to golf, Scott continued to meet each day with strength. His heart remained full—full of love for his family, especially Darla, his greatest joy, and his mom and dad, who meant everything to him. Scott loved deeply, quietly, and fiercely. He had a gentle soul, a warm smile, and a way of making people feel seen and cared for.

A memorial service will be held on November 23rd at Creekside Community Church, for family members only. In honor of Scott’s love for animals, donations to the Cherryland Humane Society in his name are appreciated in place of flowers.

Though we grieve deeply, we remember Scott as someone who lived with love, loyalty, and faith. His legacy lives on in the people he cherished, the lives he touched, and the beauty of the place he called home. Today, we imagine Scott soaring on eagle’s wings—strong, free, and finally at peace.

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